They say patience is a virtue. And within a relationship, I have learned so much about time. In a relationship, there are plentiful of good times and bad. But what stabilizes the balance of the relationship dynamics between two people is when you are both content. Yes, content isn’t always enough, but it is the balancing act between all the positive and negative chaos in our everyday lives.
The most rewarding times within a relationship is when you dig yourself out of a hole, together. When something happens, and finally a breakthrough of light at the end of the tunnel shines towards you. You look at your partner and just smile. You both smile because of how grateful you are to have someone by your side to share the joy, sorrow, and emotional turbulence with. It’s so rewarding when goals that may take months to years, finally gets accomplished.
They say that huge, multiple changes happen all at once – and I am (superstitiously) a believer of that because it has occurred to me too many times. I am so happy to have found someone that understands how I provide myself #selflove and #selfcare. And I am so pleased to share moments of pure happiness when my partner is doing well for himself.
The biggest lesson I have learned in my 20s is that money isn’t everything. It really isn’t. Living at the fanciest place means nothing. Having the best designer bags means nothing. There is a deeper level of understanding and appreciation I now have in life. And I must say. I am in complete bliss on my terms. With the person, I share an honest love with.
If you are single, you will find someone who will share your values and perspective in life. It doesn’t have to be a romantic relationship. If you are in a relationship, I hope the person beside you treats you with kindness and respect.